Isn’t it funny how our society touts the virtues of individualism and how special each of us is, but in our interior lives we often make ourselves miserable by comparing ourselves to others? Two experts on emotions at work, Liz Fosslieu, and Mollie West Duffy warn that left unchecked, comparison can make you miserable. Seeing people be better at something than you are can feel like a vicious uprooting. But with the right tools, you can use your envy to uncover what you value.”

Ms. Fosslieu and Ms Duffy provide some great insights into doing so for you, your team and the young people in your lives in this short but helpful article from Ideas.Ted.Com: “Comparing Yourself to Others is a Sure Route to Misery- 5 Was to Turn It Into Action Instead.” The most important person that we manage is ourselves. This article will help.